Gal, you have really been helping me a lot lately! I copied several different summaries of distancer/pursuer cycles from the Internet and read them all last night and this morning. Its so eye-opening for me! I will be forever grateful to you for suggesting that.

This afternoon I was sitting on a little stool washing bugs off the front of the Mustang and I was thinking. Really thinking hard about my sitch. About how I used to really be a different person before I got wrapped up in all this grief! A person I have forgotten almost and I determined I want to be that person again!

Back to you. How sad about your kids and H. How very painful for you. For them. How was he before with them? Was he involved much or did you always do all the work of raising them?


Me54/H47
'08 H is "done"
March '12 H moved out
Brink of D, December '12
2014 totally reconciled!
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"I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal."
Jim Conway