So, I was chatting to a friend of mine ... a very outgoing friend. Told her that the divorce is a definite thing (she's been praying for us). What does she do? Phones a single guy she knows and gave him my cell nr! He phoned me, like 10 minutes later ... now I've got a coffee date on Monday at 2pm. Yikes! I guess this is the way to do it ... just jump in and hope it turns out okay. I keep thinking, "I'm not ready, I'm too fat, I need more time." This guy's going to have to like me as I am now, or not. Nothing I can do. As he says, the worst that can happen is we have coffee. I like him already. On the negative side, he's a counselor (as in psychologist), so hope I don't count my words and seem stilted 'cause I'm worried he'll by psycho-analysing me. Mind you, his field his addictions, and I have none that I'm aware of.
Panic! What should I wear? This is my first "date" in 27 years, with a stranger. How do I act? Okay, I will keep breathing. By Monday I should be calm.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
On the negative side, he's a counselor (as in psychologist), so hope I don't count my words and seem stilted 'cause I'm worried he'll by psycho-analysing me. Mind you, his field his addictions, and I have none that I'm aware of.