See we know what is also going on in the background.
Waywards are lazy.
They want you to do all the work. Part of that displacement.
So you have a few things going on below the surface.
There is the race between you and realizing your a chump. Once you hit that chump stage it is over. You close the door forever. And believe me it will happen one day.
There is this other race as well. Between stone walling and doing all the work.
Her dream of separation does not include day to day hard work. As you can already see. She is unable to do any hard-work. If she was able she would have worked on her issues and her issues in the marriage.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
