"Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die"
That was the quote that got me out of the anger and resentment rut. When I realized that I spent so much time and energy HATING him and what he did and he had gone on with his life and didn't even know how much time I was putting into the grudge. So I realized that once again - I was the loser. And I don't like LOSING!
Suit yourself. But I would not want to be your children who have to pussyfoot around.
Hm, you couldn't enjoy a Saturday night with your kids because SHE duped you? That's the competitive CTH talking, the one who can't stand to lose. If, for example, cuddling with your babies on the couch, while eating popcorn together and watching a good movie is losing or being duped, then you should be screaming "dupe me some more, baby!"
Happy Holidays and Happy New Year CTH. Hope you are well. FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
