So the wife is WAW. She made the comment if you and the kids really love me you will still love me if I move out. How can you answer this? I do love her more than anything in the world but the pain of her moving out and seperating will change everything. How can I say that I will still love her the same? I am trying to detach the best I can but I feel like I am being fake when you love someone so much. I know the 180 plan is for me but it is so hard somedays. Any advise would be appreciated.
Brought over from the other thread. That is why you must learn detachemnt.
Take your love and put it away in a box on the shelf. You will take it out again in the future when the time is appropriate. If you love some one unconditionally then you can let her go, if she comes back then she was your, if she doesnt then she was never yours to begin with.
Have you ever held a bar of wet soap. If you squeeze it is it easier to hold?
