Thanks Suppo. I am like an open book. IMO, lay it all on the table, that’s how I view it. Cheerleading, input, etc…your awesome buddy and I know you’re a man of faith. As mentioned on TV last night, there’s a reason why our currency says, In God We Trust.

I want to take view points from others so I welcome and appreciate your input. I am being hard on myself but when I look our freshman class, I get discouraged with myself at times. I know it’s not a contest however I feel others are getting A’s and B’s while I am getting C’s or D’s. I need to stop beating myself up!!! Anyway, I post to vent, get input or I am trying to look for answers. To be honest, sometimes I need to just role with my gut instinct and realize I will never have all the answers. I wish a marriage could be simple. Every now and then I say to myself, are you kidding me!!!! The complexities of a marriage is just mindblowing.

It’s interesting you commented about it getting harder before getting easier. People comment from both angles, some will tell you it gets easier with time. Personally, I would happen to agree with your IC. wink
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Freshman class of 2012
Me(M):38
W:43
Together: 14 Married: 11
D: 4
S:8
W wanted separation 5/5/12
Stopped living together 5/5/12

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude”.
Thomas Jefferson