Thanks Chatter! I completely understand your point, and think it is a good one absolutely. I'm just taking a less confrontational approach. I think the outcome will be the same either way.

And I completely understand about the "verbatim" thing... I certainly don't want to become "dependent" on other people's words to say what I need! But I greatly appreciate the support and sometimes, I can't have written it better myself! smile

And as hard as it might be to believe, I'd never bring up the fact that I continued to "support" her in the future. It's simply something that I am more than capable of doing right now and, as much as she's hurt me, I still don't want to see her suffer financially at this point.