Well since she is still working then carry on with agreement. You mentioned earlier that she up'd and left.
So I posted under this thought.
The couch send her a cheque for that as well with the 500 bucks.
The phone and insurance are beneficial to her. She needs to build her credit scores again. This will help with that. This also helps her with being independent. This is what she asked for. So give it to her. Be business like on this. Get it done. You will keep her on to say hey look at me. I am taking care of you still. And you will use it in conversation down the road. That is just who you are. You should ask yourself why you are stonewalling on items such as this.
Some times actions do lead to consequences in the future.
I would think leaving you to be with another man would be an action that carries some consequences.
You are separated now. So give her a hand on this with separating the accounts.
There is no heavy consequences of anything in the future.
You get divorced : She has her accounts set up.
You get back together : You merge your accounts again.
Nothing more. Nothing less.
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