My first steps to change for my first week:- 1-stop talking about the past and my sitch in the past and look to the future. 2-no presure anymore or relationship talks ever (this one I've always slipped with). 3-accept right now my wife has no intention or interest in working on our marriage and stop trying to make her change. 4-stop talking so much about me. When I get the chance to be around her be positive about her and what she's doing and listen. Really listen. 5- take things slow and do 1 thing a day that's going to make me laugh or smile. (a happy man is an attractive man)
Please do add and contribute to this list. Please keep the honesty coming I need it.
Kevin
Me-38W-28. M-2 1/2. Together-7 years OM-14/4/12 Told M in trouble-17/4/12 BD-5/6/12 S-5/6/12 ProofOM-17/06/12 Start to change me-31/08/12 EA+PA-14/04/12-now
