"Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die"
That was the quote that got me out of the anger and resentment rut. When I realized that I spent so much time and energy HATING him and what he did and he had gone on with his life and didn't even know how much time I was putting into the grudge. So I realized that once again - I was the loser. And I don't like LOSING!
Suit yourself. But I would not want to be your children who have to pussyfoot around.
