Your welcome RH. I should read it myself again too. Always helps to keep strong. Glad you have a plan about keeping dim. Try it for a while and see what happens. If things change for the worse, re-think your strategy. I think it will take your H by surprise because you have always been there. It surely will make him question why you are not constantly texting him. He may think you have met someone in RE school. He might have to think about you being with someone else if you go to D. He may not like it.
My H never texts me any more. It still hurts even though I've come to expect it, I always have a little hope there somewhere. I text him rarely. Can you bring some milk home...that sort of thing. He would never cope with a needy person. He always waits for me to make the first move, and I do get tired of it. Ho hum.