right or wrong, justified or not, or simply practical
the first reason I came up with to work on MY ANGER, was not that "it was the right thing to do". I felt "right" to be angry. But it was NOT helping me or my cause
and I realized when I was w/my d's, they were not getting all of me or my focus. I was far too preoccupied with MY pain to be fully present for them...at a time when they needed me more.
So, putting them first helped me start on letting go of anger...and knowing that the anger only made my h happier to be gone. I refused to fuel his justifications for leaving, by showing the anger to him.
see if any of this^^ helps.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
