[quote=25yearsmlc] I DO agree that detachment and moving on, seemed to help both.
And it's probably not worth arguing & I don't want to hijack, but the "two essentially the same approach" is not my recall at all.
Far from it. Read Denver's whole thread and see how he focuses ON HIMSELF and what HE can do to be a better man, and a better h.
I can't think of a single nasty comment by Denver about his w.
It's hard to know or assess with Starsky. I fear he had a different name before, "left" DBing & came back with a new name but same issues w/DBing. If so, If he used to be another poster who got banned and came back with a new name but pounding the same points, it doesn't feel honest to pretend otherwise.
Sorry to hijack topics.
Interesting way of dis-creating the poster that you have a difference of opinion with.
Starsky has been here since 2004. 3 id's He is open about that. You full well know you can click on his name and topic's created.
Transparency a good one. started on 08/08/2012 last reply 08/21/2012 Chat, Actually, I did NOT know this^^^^. Recently someone messaged me from DB to tell me they were one and the same people (or 3?).
So I just learned what you are confirming. I didn't think I insulted at all but I realize that is what YOU hear when I post.
While I dont' find it "transparent" at all, that's not important. And since further discussion of this will lead to more hijacking that does not help Arsene, I'll go no further w/it.
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