I guarantee you will feel worse after, whether or not she is going to the conference! It will hurt a lot to keep you guessing but I'm telling you from experience DO NOT TRAVEL DOWN THAT PATH!!!
1- even if you confirm there is a conference you will still wonder if she is in fact attending it.
2- if there is no conference then you will go down this ugly hole and feel like a less than zero for days, weeks, or months!!
3- keep your assumptions to yourself. you will wonder about it and may eventually find out without even looking. You'll feel terrible but hopefully by the time you find out you will be in a better place in your sitch.
Keep your head held high! Magic word is "DETACH"
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
