Thanks Snodderly and Seeking,

Strange how worrying about someone is such an ingrained habit that even now I can't stop! I even realize I still miss the Jasack.

I realized today that after the judge delivered his decision, I stood up with my lawyer, who told me to have a good day, walked by my X without a backward glance and strolled out of the courtroom. I did see his wifey's "stricken" look. I know what she was in for last night. A full night of drinking himself into oblivian, and ranting to all what a B**ch I am.
As I believe many of you have said before, my X is far from being cooked yet. I am starting to wonder if he ever will be.

Snodderly - the house is going to be a silvery grey, with slightly off white trim, charcoal shutters and a front door painted Red Delicious.( a dark red) The roof of my house is mid to dark grey shingles, so I think it will look very striking. Eventually, I plan to put up the victorian wrought iron fence around the front yard. I am on a street of early 1900 homes, with white picket fences and green shutters, so this should set my little house apart from the others.

The remnants of Hurricane Isaac arrived here this afternoon, but other than some power outages east of here and downed limbs, we are just having some long awaited rain. Should be passed by us by tomorrow afternoon.

Hope everyone has a safe and Happy Labor Day weekend.


ME: 54
Him: 51
M: 20 years T: 21 years
OW/New wife: 36
Sons & Daughters: 7 (ages 24-36)
Bomb: March 4, 2010
He Filed: April 28, 2010
I Contested: May 1, 2010
Standing Down: 11/24/10
Divorced : 05/04/2011