Right now, the BIGGEST thing I struggle with is making sure I am doing my best to take the right approach when I interact with W. My W may or may not be having a PA. IMO, chances are very likely. If I was to “guess “ it’s not a long term thing. Yes, lots of speculation here and to be honest, I don’t feel like tackling the subject with W. Others on this board have told me that my W might want to come back to me if I make some consistent changes, I really hope there’s truth to that.
Here’s the question that’s SO hard for me to answer. My W is pissed today, that’s ok right? As Denver put it. “she’s no longer in control of me” and he also said “emotion shows that she cares.” No doubt, I am seeing this in W.
Do you think the fundamentals still apply to my sitch on how I handle my responses to W ?
I am not taking the day off work tomorrow as W keeps hasseling me about. Even though I already emailed her to let her know this. She just left me a mean vm saying “thanks for ignoring my calls” and “sorry if I am inconviencing you because of a hot date you have planned”, BTW, that’s the farthest from the truth. As of now, my responses arent consistant enough and it’s exhausing me!
I feel like a simple follow up response in the next couple hours might be a good idea. Maybe something as simple as. “Hi- I cannot take the day off tomorrow however if I can get off work a couple hours early, I will be more then happy to pick the kids up early” I just don’t know!!!!
