Yes, her last comment was a statement of desire to see it her way. I told her I don't and we have to accept that we never will. My favorite was:

"Just because the kids would be living with me during the week doesn't mean you'll have any less time with them."

Presently the time is split 50/50, week and weekend on, week and weekend off.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13