Yes, her last comment was a statement of desire to see it her way. I told her I don't and we have to accept that we never will. My favorite was:

"Just because the kids would be living with me during the week doesn't mean you'll have any less time with them."

Presently the time is split 50/50, week and weekend on, week and weekend off.

"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.