Me not being the initiator of phone calls and texts etc... Me working hard and bringing home some bacon. Me giving her space and finding things I like to do myself. I think those things all are working.
As to the trajectory overall right now, I'd say it's flat to a slight incline. But that's better than the slight decline I was at 3 weeks ago. Big thing to me is that she is back to making plans with the word "our" and "us" in them. I don't think being on a decline would promp her to do that very much.
You can back off of analyzing it every hour for now. Try doing your thing and look at it on a week by week. Be focused enough and in the moment enough so that she or the sitch behind you two is not on your mind at all.
