New goal: get him to initiate contact and start telling me he loves me again. I will give this some time after I get home. He can't see the progress I am making while I am here, so I will have to settle for patience.

My dad has been here before. He is telling me to do everything DB tells me to do! He says based on what I have told him, he thinks I just need to back off, don't pursue etc. do my own thing.

Tickets are coming FedEx tomorrow to the house, and I told H that I knew it was month end and he would probably be on the road with sales, but asked if he would go pick up my package at the local FedEx place so they wouldn't be sent back. He said sure, but to remind him because he knows he will forget.

I about choked. He always just tells me he will remember or 'ok. I will set a reminder in my phone.' he never tells me to remind hm. I don't know if I'm grasping at straws for stuff, but that seems like a little step in the right direction on his end?


Me- 29 H - 36
T - 5y M - 2y
D - 11 months
BD#1 June 2013
BD#2 H files 10/28/13
Retrouvaille Nov 13
BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14
Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set
Supposedly he's moving out?