Well trust me when i tell you that no matter what you did, it is in no way ALL your fault. No one person can cause the failure of a marriage, i'll get blasted on here for defending your EA and trust me when I tell you that im the first person to say how wrong they are, but if your marriage wasn't missing something then those things can't take hold.
You are a good person period. Thats all there is to it and sometimes good people make mistakes, and sometimes good people lose their way for a bit and don't act like good people but theres no way you caused ALL of this. If you caused all of this then you could fix all of this.
Looks like my PMA is rubbing off on you Carnac!! Sweeeeeet!!
We are all good people! We all just made some mistakes along the way. What makes us even better people, according to the LORD, as well as MWD; is that we recognized those mistakes & are now trying to correct them before we go too far down the rabbit hole.
Of course on the other side, we had to get hit with a 2x4 in the junk, to have a wake-up call. God knows I have prayed to him many many times to make this all go away, but we all know that he gives us lessons in life in order to persevere!
I for one will persevere no matter what!!! Now who's with me??
