Well trust me when i tell you that no matter what you did, it is in no way ALL your fault. No one person can cause the failure of a marriage, i'll get blasted on here for defending your EA and trust me when I tell you that im the first person to say how wrong they are, but if your marriage wasn't missing something then those things can't take hold.
You are a good person period. Thats all there is to it and sometimes good people make mistakes, and sometimes good people lose their way for a bit and don't act like good people but theres no way you caused ALL of this. If you caused all of this then you could fix all of this.
Yeah - the EA was awful. I really wish I would have thought of what he was dealing with when I was doing all those texts. It was stupid. The whole thing was. Now I have to deal with my actions. Ill fix it. Or - Ill fix me. And I know this will NEVER happen again. Whether its with him, or anyone else for that matter.
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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