Your statements are exactly on the right track if you re-read through them! "I want her to be happy, I want to be happy, I want to be happy together".
I like many others on here went through a LULL in our life where we thought our happiness needed to come from our Spouse or others around us. That is one of my main goals first, is to rediscover how to find my happiness from within & never rely on others to bring me that happiness.
Nobody wants to be around an unhappy, angry, & miserable person. If you are happy, they are happy, etc...
Maybe that could be one of your goals as well? Search within yourself & find out how to rediscover what makes you click, or what makes you smile! I think that once we overcome that hurdle, then nothing will bring us down.
Of course this is the Confucius Philosophical side of me coming out. But has extreme validity when you truly think it through.
