GB, thanks. I'm having a rough day. Trying to get a sense of peace for myself.
Yes, I'd love to try going dim. So far today, I've been successful! It sounds small, but H & I have gotten into the habit of so much texting.
I keep thinking of things he said yesterday. I forgot a lot of what Chuck said during that time. I'm prepared again now, as I think we will talk Sunday.
I just can hardly believe H thinks everything will be the same as now if we D! He even leaves dirty clothes for me to wash now when he leaves. He has some clothes here and some at HP. So if he wears the clothes here he leaves them for me to wash.
My instructor friend said the first ten years of her M that she and her H agreed she was much more in love with him than he with her. Why? She hung on his every word and was available constantly for him as well as telling him her every little activity. No mystery.
I'm really encouraged that this is a great friendship to stumble upon right now. She is kind, dynamic, lots of integrity and experience I can draw upon. I am so grateful!
How are things in your sitch, Gal?
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway