"I'm glad that you're making your deisions, as I am, too. Again, I appreciate the offer, but I don't feel good about you helping me move... I've got (Friend's name) and we can handle it. I'm trying to keep this as stress free and peaceful as possible for both of us."
I will not be responding to that text, as I've already screwed up enough and my emotions are quite positively in overdrive right now...