Counselor basically tells me she can't talk to me about my children or be my therapist because she has already begun working with my children in the context of another "family".
Just had a call from X. Big spew. She wants to come in my house to get things she left her TWO years ago. I told her I done feel comfortae allowing someone in my home who is suing me but I would get any items of sentimental value her (I've already requested a list). She went ballistic. She then asked if I would tell her if I take the kids out of town. I responded if I take them out of state as per custody agreement. She went ballistic again.
No seeker. They are your kids to which you have legal access and rights to talk to their caregivers. If that therapist won't talk to you regarding the kids and cites that bulls* I would consider filing a complaint against the counselor with the certifying board in your area.
As for your ex. That is my worst nightmare that is. I would not give her anything of sentimental value. Consider it lost to her and likely that she has an alternate motive to be in your house.
Be safe and be smart.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
