Your response: "Nothing that can't wait to be discussed in person, considering how important everything obviously is at this stage." -- and then AVOID any phone conversation, in my opinion.
Again, that's just me. If you DO decide to discuss this by phone, do it at a time that works for YOU. Don't play this junior-high game of "Well, what do YOU want to talk about??" ... "No, you go first . . " " No, YOU go first . . . "
(((rolls eyes)))
Ugh...
AT, AT, AT...
Patience... patience... patience...
I just checked on this post like 10 minutes ago and nothing was going on...
Now? all hell has broken out.
Take your time man. There is absolutely no reason that you should have even responded to her first text yet, let alone already had a second round of text exchanges.
PATIENCE
You should have waited a few hours to respond. Ran it by the board here and considered your response more carefully.
Every word that you utter should be deliberate and thought out.
Starsky's response to the cluster is as good as can be.
I would have topped it off with a good dose of "talk to you soon"...
You need to end this exchange quickly with something like that in appropriate context.
(facepalm)
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
