Spoke with the lawyer. More questions than answers - mainly about our daughter. I really want this to go smooth and easy and hurt no one in the process.
My wife thinks I'm moving too swiftly. I think she has had enough time to decide whether or not she wants to be married to me. She chose not. But she says this is what we do need to do.
I feel like a speck that she just flicked away. She basically rolled over and gave into this guy. Now the 15 years we had means nothing. She apparently built more in the last several with him to make up for it. Man, I feel like $&*!.
Try to understand where her mind is at. The romantic buildup and how she see's it. The more time she spends with him, the less she's thinking about you.
