Great advice Starsky... So I actually went ahead and said MOST of that already...
I told her I'd be happy to help and she could line up the other help back in Central Florida, but she responded that she thinks it would be best "for both of us" if I wasn't there when she packed the rest of her stuff.
I told her that I had something I wanted to discuss with her in person, and she responded "Yeah, there are some things we need to discuss... but is there any particular reason you can't talk with me about it over the phone?"
I responded that I would prefer to meet, but I suppose the phone could work"
Then she asked if I wanted to talk about it now!
I told her "I'm working, so it's not the best time... What is it YOU wanted to discuss?:
She just responded "Well, you're working, so I guess its not the best time, right?"