They were telling us. Just not in a way that we were willing to hear, or in a way that we understood.
I agree 100%!! Too bad they wouldn't just hit us across the face with a 2x4 or something similar
By the time that they walk away, they have reached an extreme level of frustration. They have thrown their hands up believing that they have done everything that they could to communicate the problems to their LBS. They usually believe that they are done trying. They convince themselves of that and then validate their decision by altering history and vilifying the LBS beyond what is usually the reality.
The walk away spouse is not without fault usually. IMO, from what I've seen, the number one fault of the walk away spouse is that they did not take the time to educate themselves as we do here after they have left. They fail to look for other ways to COMMUNICATE their unhappiness to their LBS.
JMO.
Denver
Agreed again with your opinion! You would think as far as things have moved forward over the years, that communication would get better. Instead IMO, communication has gotten worse & people look for the quickest answer/way out of things