Do you have any guesses WHY your H might want you to call? He likes attention Does it seem like small talk or does he appear to want to know your where abouts at any given time? Both. A bit of small talk but always ask what I'm doing, where I'm going. He always wants me to be at home when he gets theres. Says he does not want to be alone. If it's the former, great. If it's the later, then you want to be mysterious about your comings and goings. Yes, I agree. I try to be as mysterious as I can be but he does not hesitate to scrub down my answers.

A little history...
When I first found out about the A, I constantly called him throughout the day and texted multiple times. One time I called and he rudely answered the phone, "What do you want?". I felt insulted, embrassed and lowly. I was sure that he was not responding to the OW in this manner. As a matter of fact, there were maybe 50 calls and texts between the two of them daily. I told him how I felt, Started reading DR, looking at the videos and reading posts. Backing off and GAL was a must if I were to keep my dignity. I immediately stopped calling and texting him. When he called, I would let the phone go to VM then call him back 30mins to an hour later. And no more kiddy or I Love You texts from me.