Month 3 no movement

[Mrs D]

Its so interesting b/c you hear the same things from so many people on here and yours rings so true with me about your wife wondering why you wouldnt do that before b/c she wanted it all along. And I wonder why they won't acccept that we're doing it now. I know that often times they 'think' they've been saying it all along, but often times I think that they're not saying it in a way we can hear....and also that we're not listening. I hear alot on here that someone's spouse will say they shouldnt have to go to this extreme ..i.e. leaving..to get their spouses attention, but if they're doing it for our attention, then why not work with us now b/c I can assure you they have our full attention at this point.

Just my rant for the morning.......

I hear you loud and clear, and this is exactly what MWD would like to portray to women out there about going to this kind of extreme to get there H's attention. I watched the YouTube video of her stating exactly what you said above at least 20 times.

I too wish my W would have beat me over the head and came out bluntly a long time ago without going to this extreme, because I am a neanderthal & do not read subtelty at all...LoL

And I agree with you guys as well with the above comments. My X just said to me just on Saturday last week - "I dont understand why you are doing everything you should have before the divorce was final. We wouldnt be here!" As I told him before, it took him walking away to realize the person I was. Right or wrong, thats what it took. I didnt respond to his comment Saturday. He knows the reason because Ive told him before. But like everyone says - they see we are making changes. I know my X wont come back to me anytime soon because he thinks its a tactic. And thats fine. Gives me more time to work on myself, and to prove this is the new and improved ME!!