Hey k-g, thanks for talking about this and I love Ad's response. I have the same "How dare you" response a lot. It's getting better but it hits me deep down, that somehow I'm lacking.
I also like the suggestion to act like everyone likes you. I have actually started taking on that attitude in the past severral months and it does help.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss