Beware of putting your wife on too high of a pedestal. I know that sometimes the LBS can have the view of their spouse change to make them the greatest person in the world. But in the end, I know it does you no favors.
You can't really expect to have a real relationship with one person worshiping the other person. It's a fantasy really.
Ferris Bueller said it best. "you can't respect somebody who kisses your a**. It just doesn't work."
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.