One of my wife's complaints about me is that she feels that she doesn't know much about me. That I never share personal stuff with her like my favorite Christmas or future dreams, childhood memories, things like that.
So essentially not talking to her is what she expects from me, not pursuing her is exactly what she expects. Pursuing her is the exact 180 of that.
Now tell me, does that jibe with DR? I didn't read that scenario covered in the book at all.
