Thanks everyone for your input. It's always nice to have compatriats out there who have been through the same wars.
I can't say everything is looking rosier this morning; I still have a splitting headache, didn't sleep much at all last night, and have a full day of work ahead of me. This is definitely one of those LET GO AND LET GOD moments. I prayed for him last night, asked God to help him help himself. I'll keep doing that as the days and weeks go on. That is the extint of my involvement. Period. I have to let it go.
Anyone got any exciting Labor Day weekend plans? If the hurrican doesn't reach me and flood me out, I'm planning to paint my house. At least START painting my house. One can at a time. ( My neighbors are going to hate me)