Went from having a great conversation to him not really wanting to talk. He replies to me when ask him about things (financial, I needed him to look for some stuff for me) but he stopped the I love you's. I stopped them as well per the DR book, but I will reply if he says it.

Is this a roller coaster of his emotions showing through, or is he detaching and moving on? I can't tell. I am home in two weeks. H says we can talk then, but I know bringing up our sitch just makes him draw in to himself even more. I hope it is a happier homecoming than I expect, so I will act as if once I am back. I think my return may be assign him out as well, because he is expecting the same behavior once I get home. I guess all I can do is show him that I am working on myself. I have already made plans to go out and do things etc. but it [censored]. I'd rather be doing these things with him.


Me- 29 H - 36
T - 5y M - 2y
D - 11 months
BD#1 June 2013
BD#2 H files 10/28/13
Retrouvaille Nov 13
BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14
Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set
Supposedly he's moving out?