So i drafted this email :

'Did you get my email two days ago? About Michelle's money? i know we agreed how much you would be sending for Michelle. however, you have missed the last five payments, so I think a legal arrangement might be more suitable for us. I am not going to be chasing you for this money and have decided to file for legal child support.'


Pls let me know what you think. Also DD travels in two days, and i am worried he might find out and claim that he doesn't have to pay as she doesn't live here (which she does, she's only going for some months, and will need support wherever she is, anyhow)


Me 33, H 34
T 15 (on and off, 7 years this stretch)
M 4
DD 3
OW July 2010, IDLY - Oct 2010

1st sep 28/5/11-14/8/11 (my idea)
OW confirmed 25/11/11 (H travelled with OW 26/11/11)
I moved out 3/12/11