is this the end....trying not to give up

[tonibertha]

I sent H an email yesterday to remind him that i haven't received the money for DD. So far he has not replied, nor has he sent the money.

I've spent some time trying to analyse his reasons for not responding or sending the money. Earlier in the month he sent me an email asking why the phone bill for the phone he got for me (and which i was paying for) was £600. I replied that I didn't know, since i stopped using it in may ( i did inform him that i no longer needed it and was getting my own line). As such i stopped paying the bill for it.

I realise that this may be PA behaviour on his part. Either way, the mind-reading does not help me.

I am considering filing for child support if he does not send it by September 7th. Unfortunately, the child support is less than he agreed to pay, but since he hasn't sent money since March, I think it's a better option.

What do you think i should do? do i send him an email asking if he got my other email? do i continue to wait? or should i inform him that since he's not paying, I am filing for child support?