Wow 10 years. She must be one amazing person. I have heard if you can get through it, its better than ever! Something to hope for as long as you don't have too much hope, if you know what I mean. Get on with making the most of your life and maybe H will come out of the fog. Makes me wonder if my H is in replay. He's been going through this 12 months that I know of and its probably not long enough from most accounts.

I'm staying cautious. Don't want to get hurt again.