Yes, that's what I mean. Today. Chuck said to listen to his proposal and say I'd think about it. Which I did and he appreciated. I did say a few more things but no tears. And we seemed the same afterwards.
It was a beautiful trip home tonight with clear sky, nearly full moon and heater on in the convertible. I listened to some of the songs H sent me.
I talked to the instructor for a long time after class. After all she is a living success story after MLC. She told me lots of details of her sitch. They were married almost fifty years and she said they had 30 awesome years after his 10 year MLC! Imagine!
Her advice: be just as friendly and flirty but far less available. I can do that! I didn't today but I don't feel clingy or needy at all! I'm actually excited! It's great to have someone in person like that. Her H followed script and when I told her my sitch she said she felt like I was telling her own life story.
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway