Sorry about the Jekyll and Hyde stuff! But it feels nice to vent these blue feelings rather than let them simmer.
We're all dealing (or have dealt)with a WAS, we're quite used to Jekyll and Hyde stuff!
Originally Posted By: Denver_2010
Sometimes, the best action is to sit quietly and let the answer come to you.
To quote a wise man I know "^^^^^ Wisdom!"
Unless you are convinced that you're there, I wouldn't rush into anything without a good dose of patience and mulling over. Some options will always be there, others won't. We've only been at this for a relatively short time you and I and I know how you must be feeling with OM in the picture (believe me I do), but I also know that you still love your wife dearly and that you would like to have her back NOW. Don't use an "extreme" measure as a tactic. Just do it if it's the way you truly feel.
Cheers mate!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then