Alien Invasion Pt 2

[reachingHigher]

Hey gal, I'm still at school. I had some stuff today I posted. H seems determined to want a D. I posted some stuff and TSquared2 is helping me with a guy's perspective.

Since I started class I asked H a couple times to send me a song via email for the trip home. He did but I wondered if it had been pursuing. Had some texting today after D talk and he sent me a song unsolicited because I knew I would like it.

I'm wondering if control is a big issue for him. I am trying to tell myself I might end up D but still wondering if I can calm his heart now and let some time pass.

The instructor in my class told me privately her (now deceased) H had a TEN YEAR MLC and put her through he!! and then he was an amazing and WONDERUL H after. He had somewhat of an amnesia about his MLC period. She said occasionally he would realize what he was doing but most of the time not. And he couldn't remember it all afterward!

Her advice "work it out! Hang in there! Don't give up!"

Okay. It would be nice to not have to get D in the process. But I think my H has convinced himself it's the only way to freedom. If I could somehow give him more space I need to do that.

How are you?