X demands full custody because I'm now engaged

[sleeper]

She will NEVER put anything in writing. She is too caddy for that. I have managed to record a couple of ph convos but I won't replay them for her. She flipped out when she found I had documented something DS said. Her reaction was a combination of indignation that I hadn't told her earlier than I did and parinoia that I was gathering evidence to use against her. (the documentation was inadvertent when I was journaling but exists).