If though you are divorce, please don't give up hope. But give him his space. Trust me, the more contact you make with him, the further you are pushing him away. When my H walked out on my last July, he told me it was over and there was no hope. I kept pursing him day after day. And I pushed him further and further away. Then one day I woke up and said no more. I had to sell our house and I was living with a friend. After 5 months of separation, he started to come around and noticed the changes that I had made and he noticed that I was becoming a stronger person each time. He admitted to me that scared him. I moved into my own place the day after Christmas and he was afraid that since he can see me getting stronger that he was going to lose me. We started to spend time together and he like what he saw, my changes. He moved in with me this past February and we are pretty happy. We do have our ups and downs but now talk things out. I never gave up hope.
