I have been following your sitch from the get-go. We joined here about the same time, but I don't know if you remember me.
I want to tell you that you should be proud of where you are. If you went back and read your original posts, you would think - wow, was that really me?
Please pat yourself in the back for that. I have always felt connected to your sitch. I had similar issues with my H (and still do). My hot temper ruined the love and respect he felt for me. But I can see a much more serene and mature person when I read your posts. You know you are not that angry person anymore. I admire that and use that as an inspiration and place to reach. No, I cannot say I am there yet, but thank you for showing me it can be done.
I look forward to reading and keeping up with your goals and dreams for this new phase of your life.
Remember, the sky's the limit!
(((DG)))
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D