I DO agree that detachment and moving on, seemed to help both.
And it's probably not worth arguing & I don't want to hijack, but the "two essentially the same approach" is not my recall at all.
Far from it. Read Denver's whole thread and see how he focuses ON HIMSELF and what HE can do to be a better man, and a better h.
I can't think of a single nasty comment by Denver about his w.
It's hard to know or assess with Starsky. I fear he had a different name before, "left" DBing & came back with a new name but same issues w/DBing. If so, If he used to be another poster who got banned and came back with a new name but pounding the same points, it doesn't feel honest to pretend otherwise.
Sorry to hijack topics.
Interesting way of dis-creating the poster that you have a difference of opinion with.
Starsky has been here since 2004. 3 id's He is open about that. You full well know you can click on his name and topic's created.
Transparency a good one. started on 08/08/2012 last reply 08/21/2012
I am sure you were reading the newcommer section during that time and would have seen it.
Would it not just be better to say.
I do not agree with Starsky's advice. Here is why based on your stitch and then leave it at that.
Or even better.
Just say... Here is my opinion. And leave the insults out of it.
Our friend here is an adult. They can formulate their own opinions of posters.
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