Yes, yes.
Thanks Ad.

I see how my old baggage came into play, which means there is a lack of forgiveness on my part. Something to keep working on for me.

I also really like the advice - assuming everyone likes me. I will need to practice that one, though, since I often assume H is judging me (part of my co-dependet nature).

Thanks for keeping me honest about this.

I have been thinking that I have to mentally prepare better and be ready and in a peaceful mindset before every exchange I have with H to make it short and sweet. That is my most immediate goal on that front.

Thanks again. smile


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D