I see how my old baggage came into play, which means there is a lack of forgiveness on my part. Something to keep working on for me.
I also really like the advice - assuming everyone likes me. I will need to practice that one, though, since I often assume H is judging me (part of my co-dependet nature).
Thanks for keeping me honest about this.
I have been thinking that I have to mentally prepare better and be ready and in a peaceful mindset before every exchange I have with H to make it short and sweet. That is my most immediate goal on that front.
Thanks again.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D