In your case, the woman that's attached to your H isn't clingy in a "fearful" way. She could very well be attracted to him and shows him attention which she gets back in return. So far your H hasn't been exactly pushing her away. So there's a difference.
Mm - yes and no. I completely see what you are saying regarding H - but I also know her as a person. That is what she is. In the past week, I have had atleast two people tell me that H needs to run away from her. As fast as he can. But that is not something that I am going to tell him. Its something he needs to see for himself. So. Ill sit back. Work on myself. Make some corn, and watch the show when/if it happens.
M:43/ H:39 T:12/ M:9 S8, D15 M affair(one night): 2/09 M EA: 2/12-7/12 D:6/7/12 H: GF since 7/24/12
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