I just remembered a question I have, I checked the Retrouvaille schedules and there's going to be a session in my area but it's only about 2 months away. I suspect W would agree to go, but I'm concerned her heart might not be in it since she will not have been out of the house long at that point, and I'm also concerned she might view it as me pressuring her to R. Any thoughts? My inclination is to not say anything about it and try to get a read on her in about a month and decide whether or not to schedule it then.
Also, I haven't mentioned this but I've always been a very spiritual person and I have really laid my tears on God's shoulders as no one else wants to see them. Like many guys, I was raised to suppress tears and went many, many years without shedding a single one. I've cried more since this misery started than in the last probably 35 years combined. It's been a tough road.
