"It's as if she realizes she no longer has any control over me at all and is grasping at anything that might allow her influence in my actions."

Exactly! Good for you for sticking to your guns. Do you ever talk with your XW's H? Did he have children of his own?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER